I've probably re-posted every page of my site 5 times today. Uploading a new version pretty much guarantees that I've missed a broken link.  :(

I've also received some interesting feedback from my Journal on OKCupid. I asked for tire-kickers to check out www.myheroquest.com version 2.0. Here's one comment:

The site might be what you are wanting.

It also removes the mystery of a man getting to know you. With your laundry list of requirements you eliminate most men but you also set yourself up for a true sleezeball that could be pretending to be everything you want.

Of course, this is exactly the point of my site...to weed out the men who are not a match so I can concentrate my limited time on those who may be. (And presumably, this is a good deal for the guy too.)

I'm not sure where he gets the idea that the Efficient Love process makes me more prone to being taken in by a sleezeball...I think the opposite is true. I think you're more likely to be fooled if you've already had that magical "chemistry" thing happen before you've really gotten to know someone. Once you become emotionally invested in someone, it's MUCH easier to overlook incongruities.